Showing posts with label giving or DHAANA. Show all posts
Showing posts with label giving or DHAANA. Show all posts

Sunday, September 11, 2011

The Art of Giving




The Scriptures place great importance to giving or Dhaana .


Dhaana is a sacred ritual sanctified by the ceremonial pouring of water over the hands ...


There are nine  important points to keep in mind .


1. Give with the heart not with the head ...


 do not analyse it too much .

2. Give with Joy , not reluctantly .


3. Give only that is useful to the other person , not junk .


4. Give without expecting anything in return , there should be no expectation of returns or quid pro quo .


5. Give with humility love and compassion , not with pride or arrogance .

There is a story of a famous donor who would only give anonymously as far as possible , and even if he were face to face , he would not look at the face of the donee , only at his feet ..

when asked why , he said ... I do not wish to embarass the receiver ....


6. give in proportion to your capacity ...

 a 100 rupee gift by a person who earns a 1000 rupees is greater than a 1000 rupees given bya millionaire .

after your taxes , loan dues and savings , give at least 10% of your income .

7. Give unconditionally , not with numerous strings attached .

8. Give to the deserving , not to the undeserving.

there is no point conducting a function at a temple and feeding your already overfed relatives and friends ..
feed the hungry instead .

9. and finally , do not flaunt or boast about having given .

like those who paint their names on tubelights  donated to temples cutting off half their light .



Lets make the world a better place by Dhaana , Giving ...